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In life, when seeking change, it is important to weigh your options in order to figure out if the change is worthwhile. The same rules apply when contemplating a change in hairstyle. Sometimes people make drastic decisions based on circumstances, emotions or lifestyle, only to feel trapped in their new "do" or to find out that its not working for them. Being prepared and researching your future style is as important as having the right stylist to service you. So before you go any further, consider these tips:
1. Schedule a consultation. After you have decided on your stylist of choice, research the type of styles that you are considering. Check online for pictures as well as various hair magazines. Have many options in mind.
2. Make a list. Consider the pros and cons of your current hairstyle. Also make a list of what you would like to achieve from the future hairstyle. Be true to yourself about what you like and don’t like.
3. Ask questions. Once you have your pictures and your list, ask the stylist how each look is achieved AND maintained. Also go over the cost of the service and the future costs in order to maintain your style.
4. Don't fear rejection. Be prepared to possibly be disappointed. The reality is that every style isn’t for everybody. As a stylist, that is his/her job to make sure that the look you are considering fits your face and features, as well as your hair texture. But don’t fret, you can mix and match different styles for a custom look just for you.
5. Take your time. Don’t make any drastic or hasty decisions. Relax and take time to think about all the information that you were given and which styles you like and don’t like. You have the final say.
Follow these few easy steps and I guarantee that you'll make the right decision for you. Who knows? You may even decide that your current style works the best and you end up making no changes. But its best to know these things in advance before you leave the salon as an unhappy customer.
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Do you know what May brings? The only time in a girl's life (besides her wedding day) where she will do everything possible in order to make sure her hair, nails, skin and outfit is 100% up to par! Yes Ladies & Gents:
IT'S PROM SEASON :)
These days it doesn’t seem to be as big a deal as it was back when I was growing up, but I personally think it’s a time that every young lady should experience. Yes the fellas are needed to escort the ladies, but let's be honest, just like a wedding, this day is more often steered by the prom go-er (and her mother).
So with that being said you want your hairstyle to evenly match your dress. If your dress has a lot of accents on it, you don’t want to wear an up do that is too "busy". It’s tricky when it comes to matching hairstyles to a person's face and neckline of the chosen dress.
Here are a few tips:
1.About a month before the prom, seek a professional stylist to help you achieve your look. Bring in pictures, magazines or anything else you can find of ideas for your style.
2.Be sure to bring a picture of your dress or be able to accurately explain the neckline to your stylist. Is your dress a halter? Strapless? High neck? V-neck? These things matter so bring all the valuable information. At that time your stylist can go over which styles work with your dress and face structure.
3.Be open to options. Remember every style isn’t for everybody. By working together you can mix and match ideas to come up with something unique for you and your look.
4.Wear a button down shirt. There's nothing worse than having the cutest style then completely ruin it by pulling off a t-shirt while trying to get into the shower.
5.After deciding on a look, schedule your time accordingly. If you know you have extremely long or thick hair or you are getting a style that takes some time, don’t schedule your appointment 3 hours before you need to be there. This is a special day… you don’t want to rush your style (or stylist!)
6.Understand the cost. This isn’t your average wash and style service. Many stylists move their regular clientele to accommodate those going to prom. These courtesies sometimes go unnoticed but usually worked into the cost of your style. Time and creativity is being put into your special day and 9 times out of 10 it is a style that you wont have again and don’t usually wear, so be understanding on why the cost are a bit steeper.
7.If extensions are needed, don’t get it done THAT day. I suggest going in a few days prior (or even a week) and then coming in on prom day for a styling. Extensions are time consuming and more than likely the stylist has other clients that day. This may cause an issue with your time schedule, so to save yourself some stress and/or hassle, just don’t do it.
Hopefully everyone will have a safe prom season. Send me a pic! :)
Everyone tries to get the most out of their style, usually by prolonging the time in between services. There are some instances where this is ok and times when it can work against you. Below you will find the proper amount of time to wait between your appointments. Take a look:
Permanent Color / Every 4-6 Weeks
The ideal time to wait is 4-6 weeks. If you are wearing another chemical service as well such as a relaxer or a perm make sure you wait at least 2-3 weeks between each chemical service in order to prevent massive breakage. If you have a finer texture of hair, you may also want to wait a little longer. Tip: Sticking to a shade closer to your natural color will make it easier for you. Your roots wont show as much. Not to mention the lighter you go the harsher it is on your hair.
Hair Extensions / 8weeks - 6months
There are many types of hair extensions; all in different price ranges and lasting different amounts of time. Leaving your extensions in longer than recommended can lead to tangles, hair loss, and breakage. I don't recommend you getting a service that you aren't willing to maintain properly. Know you limits. Of course every person is different and sometimes styles last longer than others as well as less time than others. But just because it still looks good to YOU 4months later, doesn't mean its good for your hair OR scalp. Extensions done with bonding glue are generally good for approx 2-3weeks MAX! Sew-Ins 8weeks, Braids 2weeks-3months (depending on style and type of hair used, if any) and fusion anywhere from 3-6months. Ive seen some stylist advertise that they can last a year with proper maintenance. I don't doubt it, but that isn't for everyone. Use caution and seek a professional for all extension services. Tip: Be sure to shampoo your hair and scalp thoroughly. If your service was done with bonding glue it CAN NOT be shampooed. All others please be sure to maintain healthy hair and scalp. Remember if a stylist tells you not to shampoo your hair with your extensions, (unless its bonding glue) DO IT ANYWAY... and find a new stylist.
Relaxer Touch Up / 4-8 Weeks
Every 6 weeks is the average amount of time between touch ups. Certain hair types and textures can go longer without suffering any damage. Keep in mind, if you are going to wait extended amounts of time between touch-ups, you must take EXTRA special care of your hair so that it doesn't break at the line of demarcation between new growth and previously relaxed hair. There are times when a 4week relaxer touch-up may be needed. This usually happens if a "corrective" relaxer needs to be done or for women who just need a little around the back and edges. My short haired friends can vouch for this ;) Tip: Make sure you wait the proper amount of time. Getting a relaxer too soon when there isn't enough new-growth can cause overlapping of chemicals which can weaken your hair structure and cause breakage.
Texturizer / 4weeks - 6months
You may notice the time frame on texturizers have a very wide range. That is because it depends on the length of hair being processed. Those with shorter styles will probably get it more often... somewhere between 4-6weeks, while those with longer hair or fine textures will wait longer, only getting it done a couple times a year. See your stylist to find out what time frame is best for you.Tip: For those with shorter styles who like the curly look, if you keep hair cut regularly, it will increase the amount of curls. The longer it gets the more relaxed the curl pattern will be.
If I missed something that you have a question about, leave it in the comment section and I promise to return with an answer or advice for all :)
Finding the right stylist or barber, is just as hard as finding the right car, job and mate. Probably more like a mate because it’s definitely a relationship that you want to keep as long as possible and you want to work out. You get to know one another; their needs, wants, likes and dislikes. Just like any relationship there is a lot of give and take on both parts. When treating each other right, you both benefit. The stylist benefits by having your business and you benefit by receiving healthy hair. It’s a win-win for all. The best thing for your hair is to get it accustomed to one pair of hands.
Constantly moving around from stylist to stylist is a quick way to end up with hair issues. Different products, skill levels and personal styles can cause your hair to suffer. I find that people move around for many reasons. Scheduling, personality conflicts, location, bad service but most of all PRICE! I’m all about finding a deal… trust me. But as the old saying goes, sometimes you get what you pay for. And although super cheap hair isn’t a good idea, don’t assume that the more pricey places will give you glamorous service or hair. I’ve heard my fair share of places that charge ga-zillion dollars to make you look like you did it at home yourself. In that instance, you paid for atmosphere. I’ve also seen some wonderful stylists, but their downfall is they will keep you in the chair ALL day long.That may be okay with some clients but for others they may prefer to find someone just as good, but who moves a bit faster.
Of course we all know that you can spend your money any way that you want to, but just be careful. If the barber/stylist that you go to, have more positives than negatives, then I’d suggest that you stay there. No one is perfect and you cant please everyone. Find someone that you like and trust and most of all STAY LOYAL to that stylist. Being a loyal client has its perks such as discounted pricing or occasional free services or VIP scheduling. I understand that there are some situations will cause you to break up, but if all is going well 95% of the time, then you are in a good place.
WE APPRECIATE YOU! So hopefully you appreciate us in return :) MO HAIR!
Communication is a very important part of your salon or barbershop visit. It’s just as important as customer service and price. It is the job of the barber/stylist to make sure that the look you are requesting, works out to the best of his/her ability. True enough we are not magicians but with a proper consultation you can address your desires and concerns and the hair professional can address how that particular style suits your face and the upkeep needed to maintain it. Who knows, after a lengthy chat you may decide it’s not for you or you may have heard a different suggestion. So I’ve created a small list of popular hair terms that if used incorrectly can make or break a hairstyle... and definitely make or break your relationship with your stylist. Remember: Its up to you just as much as it is up to them to make sure you desires are coming across properly.
LAYERS: The most popular hair term. The basic definition of layers is cutting the hair so that it has different lengths. You can have layers at any length just understand the shorter the layer, the more volume that it creates.
FEATHER: Although its an older term, it pops up from time to time. This is hair that is brushed backwards (usually around the face)to resemble the feathers on a bird. This is more of a styling concern more than anything but for best results, layer this area and it'll give more of the "feathered" effect.
TAPER: This term is used on women’s short hairstyles and men’s cuts—basically meaning to gradually make shorter, thinner or narrower towards one end. If you have longer hair, you may not want to get this confused with layers when making your request in the salon. You will probably leave very upset!
STREAKS: Basically an older term for highlighting the hair. Highlights color individual strands of hair throughout your head in a shade that is lighter or brighter than your base color. If you are trying to fully cover gray hair, highlights are not for you.
COLOR: You have permanent color, semi-permanent and temporary rinses. Sometimes people come in and say they want a color but depending on what they are trying to achieve, it could be any of these options. A permanent color is just as it sounds. Meaning to remove it you either need to do a completely new color, cut it out or grow it out. None of it will come off while shampooing although red tones do fade a little. Semi –Permanent and Rinses are pretty similar—what makes them different is the amount of time that they last. A semi last a few weeks longer than a rinse but both will come off a little at a time during every shampoo. This is the only type of color that you should get when getting another chemical service done. PLEASE NOTE:YOU CANNOT GET A PERMANENT COLOR THE SAME DAY AS RELAXER OR PERM.
Hope this helps you and if by chance you have another term that you don’t understand please feel free to click the comments and I'll answer you as soon as possible.
After a brief hiatus, I have returned to continue with the advice, products and etc.
Hope u missed me!
During my away time I seem to have had the same conversations over and over again, mostly with clients. The topic: MOISTURE! Overly Dry hair and scalp is the usually the basis of most hair problems – mainly breakage, flaking and itching. The problem is, no one wants to moisturize his or her hair properly for fear of being weighed down or feeling greasy. But let me put it this way: Would you prefer heavy hair or no hair? Seems like an easy choice to me.
What people fail to realize is moisturizing doesn’t just stop at the hair; you have to get down to the scalp. After all, that is where the hair comes out of right? I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again… an unhealthy scalp will always lead to unhealthy hair. I’ve seen many beautiful hairstyles…but what I’ve seen when I’ve parted the hair and gotten down to the scalp… well, I’ll spare you the details. But trust me, it’s not pretty. There are occasions where people can have TOO much moisture and it works against them. But the majority of us are not in that category. More often than not, people under moisturize.
African Americans need to moisturize a bit more than other races, due to our hair texture, which tends to dry out more than others. But all that does is change the TYPE of moisturizer that should be used. A heavier one would be needed in most cases, in the form of a grease or scalp cream. If you have hair that is finer or not very thick, a light scalp cream will do. Just look for the keywords “LIGHT and SCALP”. Another product that can be used is oil—if it’s not too heavy for your hair. You will find it in your beauty supply store and if you don’t feel like leaving the house, Olive Oil is also great. Found right at home in your kitchen. Sometimes you have to do a bit of trial and error to find the right product that’s not too heavy but not to light that its not doing anything for you. (And NO my friends… oil sheen isn’t going to do it.)
Other races of European, Asian or Latin descent will find these products too heavy and greasy for their hair. Don’t get me wrong, there are cases where heavier products are needed, but it’s usually on a case-by-case basis. So for those who are in the majority, treating your hair with oil can still help. A hot oil treatment once a week or every 2 weeks is an excellent option. Also unless you have naturally oily hair and absolutely NEED to shampoo daily, I suggest missing a day. Your scalp could use some of those natural oils that have built up and shampooing daily will rob you of that.
Remember folks, Conditioner is also a form of moisturizer so make sure you are using one that suits your hair needs and giving you all the moisture that you deserve. Your hair is depending on it!
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If you are an avid reader of The Hair 411, then you recently read the post regarding springtime being on the way (and I can't wait)! But before we can get there, we still have to win this war with winter weather and its drying effects on our hair and scalp.
This has been a harsh winter all over the nation and people have sacrificed their hair just to stay warm! Its quick and easy to just throw a hat on and keep on steppin'. Although we are warm, that hat is doing nothing for the integrity of our hair. Most winter hats are wool or cotton, which is terrible for hair. The fabric is very drying and draws out the moisture that we need, which in turn leads to dry, brittle and broken hair. I frown at that! When possible wrap a silk or satin scarf on your head under your hat, to trap moisture and stop any possible friction.
The key to getting through these weather traumas is moisture. Its better to be over moisturized than to be under so keep a good stock of conditioner, hot oil treatments and moisturizers on hand. Also blow dry less and avoid too much cotton and/or wool items on your hair. Beware of turtlenecks because the constant friction at the base of your head (neckline) can cause damage when turning your head. I'm not saying don't wear them, just be careful. Perhaps drape a silk scarf around your neck for added protection. You'll protect your hair and be fashionable all at the same time. :)
I met Barry Fletcher during my first hair show in New York City many years ago. I enjoyed his products then and I enjoy them just as much now. These products are VERY moisturizing, your hair will feel and smell great!
This isnt a product you can just go and pick up anywhere, it is usually retailed in professional salons or you can contact the company direct to find out exactly how and where to purchase.
Tell him you were referred by TheHair411.blogspot.com !!!
March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb? Well from what I've seen from all the snow, earthquakes and rain, they are correct! But does our hair have to suffer?
This is usually the time of year that people start contemplating different styles. That is, if they haven’t done so already with all the New Years resolutions involving "change". The most common change request for spring and summer is color. Whether its drastic or just a few highlights, you will find many going a little lighter as the temperature heats up. If you aren't quite ready yet, wait a few months till summer. Imp sure the urge will hit you by then and it will give you more time to search shades that you like and to talk to your stylist about other coloring possibilities.
If color isn’t your thing or you are happy with the hue you are in, then perhaps bangs, layers or a completely different style cut is in order. Like Arby's always say: Change is good! :) Just remember to continue to moisturize during these hard winter months. Relief is just around the corner. Mo'Hair!
After 14 years in the business, sometimes I feel I’ve heard it all. True enough I get new lines here and there but overall, any seasoned hairstylist has heard one of these lines at one point or another in their career.
So here are a few of my favorites …Enjoy!
“That’s not what I asked for” – Trying to describe a particular hairstyle can be difficult, especially when you aren’t using the correct terminology for the look you are trying to achieve. Hairstylists are just that… hairstylist. Meaning we aren’t mind readers. So for best results, bring a picture in or try to find something close from one of the salon hair books. Mix and match pictures if you have to. But trying to explain what you’re picturing in your head, what someone has on TV, or what you just seen in the store really don’t work. If you aren’t on the same page, keep talking until you get there.
“I want my hair like _______”- Women do it. Men do it. Going into the salon or barbershop hoping to mimic a particular style of an actor, singer, or athlete. The problem here is if your hair isn’t the same texture, density or you don’t have the same face shape, you can’t truly expect to end up looking exact. To be perfectly honest, some of your favorite styles may be wigs or weaves, so copying a style that may not be natural will definitely cause an immediate difference when you look at yourself in the mirror. Be prepared for what it may take to get that particular style. It may require a permanent relaxer, a perm, extensions, a cut or all of the above. Find out the maintenance that it takes to keep that style, it could cause you more headache than you originally bargained for. Know your hair limits and understand that every style isn’t for every body.
“Wait, its HOW much?” – Just as the saying goes “You get what you pay for”. I for one love what I do, but I do not do it as a hobby. This is my career and this is business, so it amazes me when I hear people say how much someone charged them. Yes I can agree sometimes people overcharge at times, but understand all that goes into making you look good – products, time, skill and knowledge. These things are priceless in my opinion, which is why you go to a professional in the first place, right? When you pick styles out of a book that are a bit jazzy or different from your usual, you shouldn’t be shocked when its not the same price that you paid on your previous visit. Saying you didn’t expect it or that you don’t HAVE the money after the service is complete DEFINITELY isn’t the way to go. Who knows how that stylist may react! Discuss the style and price before the stylist even gets started. He/She may be able to find ways to give you a similar look without as much detail that will fit into your budget. Remember, there are no returns in the hair business.
Most popular hairstyles, past and present:
Rhianna Jennifer Aniston Nancy Grace Halle Berry Farrah Fawcett Jonas Brothers Fantasia Victoria Beckham Allen Iverson Ellen Beyonce David Beckham Johnny Depp Mary J.Blige Laura Bush Adam Levine Oprah
Got dry, flaky or itchy scalp? This is my favorite product for that. At one time you could only get this through prescription from your dermatologist, but when it hit the shelves, I have been on it every since. I am a long time user of Nizoral since at least 2002. I use it on clients and most of all I use it on myself!
This is a good product for those who are experiencing problems and can't quite get to the doctor yet to check it out. You can find Nizoral in probably every drugstore, Wal-Mart, etc, located in the shampoo aisle. Not too pricey and you don't need to use excessive amounts of it. I'd pick this over any dry scalp product on the market. Be sure to follow the manufacturer's instructions when using. **Note: For extensive problems please see your doctor**
There are a lot of famous peaks out there. Terrance Howard, Jack Nicholson and Eddie Munster! Okay, don’t wear yours like his… how about Marilyn Monroe? Some are more pronounced than others (like Eddie’s) but that doesn’t mean it has to be a bad thing. One of my very good friends has had issue with this topic so I feel obligated to address those who deal with this decision of cut or don’t cut. So ladies and gents THIS BLOG'S FOR YOU!
To start this off, let me just say it this way.
Dear ladies with long hair: DON’T CUT IT! That just looks weird.
What more can I say?
Usually the issue comes with women with shorter, crop type haircuts and of course men. For men, it’s more of an individual choice depending on style of cut that he wears. If you are a man who likes a clean-cut image, with perfect edges and lines, then you are more likely to cut it off. Just remember, once you start, you have to keep it up! On the other hand, men with haircuts that are more of a scissor cut style, are more likely to wear the peak (or men who don't care either way!)
Now ladies with the shorter styles I suggest NOT cutting your widow’s peak. Once you do it’ll take away your feminine look and make your cut and face shape look hard and a bit mannish. If that’s the look you are going for then hey- do your thing! But overall, I would have to say no, that’s not a good look. Not to speak bad about the barbers, because we’re all in this together, but I tend to find that male barbers have a habit of cutting ALL widow’s peaks. For women who get their hair cut at barbershops, this isn’t always a good thing. Just remember to let your desires known to your stylist or barber before the start of service. Once its gone, it’s gone so make a decision that benefits your face and your style. Good luck and MO HAIR!
Need fuller hair? No need to keep getting dizzy by holding your head upside down while blow-drying. Here are a few suggestions to give you that lift; from permanent to temporary.
LayersCutting your hair in layers will give you a fuller look. The shorter the layer, the fuller it’ll get. Generally you wont lose too much length, unless your hair is extremely long then yes, some of the length will need to be sacrificed for blending purposes (depending on how short of a layer you want). But overall, the bulk of layers come from the center (crown) of your head.
Perm
Some people think perms are out of style but this is a good way to get body. You don’t have to end up looking like Little Orphan Annie with tight frizzy curls! Just ask your stylist for a body wave and remember the smaller the rod the tighter the curl so make sure the proper rod is used for your length and for the look that you desire. You can also wear your hair without the wave by using a flat iron or curling iron for a different temporary look; just know that once you wet your hair again it will go back to wavy/curly. Note: This procedure isn’t suggested for every hair type/texture.
Hair Rollers
Wet setting your hair your hair on larger rollers, then brushing it out with a paddle brush will create a nice full look. If you get layers cut into your hair first that will add even more volume.Dry rollers such as the velcro type, are also available to maintain fullness over night.
Volumizers
There are plenty of volumizing products. You will find gels, sprays, shampoos, conditioners, mousses and more. I personally find it contradictory to have a gel that adds body. It is already a heavy product, so how can it give u the lift that you need? I feel the same way about the “volume conditioner”. I prefer a spray or a foam/mousse…something light.
Drying ProceduresAllowing your hair to air-dry or blow-drying from bottom to top, will also give you some fullness.
Since childhood, everyone likes shiny things. Men love shiny cars, women love shiny jewelry…shiny items catches our attention. So why not catch the same attention with shiny hair? Make your style POP by adding some shine to it. There is nothing cute about a dull, drab hairstyle and lighter hair like blonds, tend to have less shine anyway. So let’s amp it up shall we?
OIL SHEEN - The 80’s and 90’s was full of oil sheen and many of us found we were addicted to it! The ozone layer is probably real pissed about it too! I use to carry a mini can in my purse throughout high school. For those who don’t know, oil sheen is an aerosol spray made up of oils and some smell goods. It’s used primarily in the black culture and its used to finish off a style and add a thin layer of shine and moisture. The problem is that too much can weigh your hair down and not to mention, all that oil will attract more dirt. The shine really doesn’t last very long then you find yourself needing to add more and more and more.
HAIR POLISH - Hair polish is a lot lighter than oil sheen and doesn’t add moisture, its just purely shine. I must admit I have come across a few that has a bit of oil in them, but generally they are oil free. This is a good product for any hair type, especially those with fine hair, because it’s not too heavy. One or two pumps is all you need.
SERUM / CREAMS – For thicker, coarser or hair that is fairly dry, a serum or cream may be your best bet. These are quite a bit thicker than the previous two items, but they coat the hair shaft to form a protective layer, usually used before any heat styling occurs. In a jar, in a pump or in a bottle, these items are in a liquid or solid form and rubbed between your hands before applying. You can use it on wet or dry hair, just be careful when adding it to wet hair because its harder to judge how much you are using until its too late. If you use too much you may have a greasy mess and will have to start the shampooing process over again.
GLAZE – A hair glaze is usually done in the salon and applied by a professional. It is similar to a rinse and is mixed with peroxide or processing liquid, to provide a longer glow instead of having to use products every day. Basically its like a top coat for your hair. You can find hair glaze products to use at home, but many times they are stronger than what is used in the salon. I suggest letting a professional do it for you. The results last a few weeks, depending how often you shampoo your hair.
Gloss, glaze, polish, sheen…they seem all the same but trust me they are all a bit different. Another thing to remember is that there are some hair gloss products that add color or will lift your color as well as adding gloss, so know what you are trying to achieve and know what you are using if you are attempting this at home. Shine on!
As we continue to age, you will notice the different changes going on with your hair. The first thing associate with getting older is gray hair…and then perhaps thinning or premature balding. Whether or not you are experiencing these things, you can still have style. Getting older doesn’t equal BORING. Choosing the right style to fit your face, age and lifestyle is important at any age, but understand the wrong style at an older age can add years to your face. And lets be honest, we need all the help we can get!
Throughout their younger years, women tend to hang onto longer hair for various reasons. Either their husbands or significant other likes it or their lifestyle requires easy ponytail hair. One thing women don’t realize is that longer hair tends to weigh the face down. I’m not saying it needs to be a super short cut, but anything past the shoulders really isn’t very flattering; especially if its in its natural gray state. A lot of senior citizens go for shorter looks, because it’s easier to tend to when they are dealing with medical problems such as arthritis. Holding their arms over their heads for long periods of time, fooling with their hair is usually not an option.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are a few women who can get away with longer hair. But it’s very few out there. I would suggest if you are a woman with 50% gray or more, that you consider wearing a shorter style.
MEN –You are NOT excluded from this conversation.
The old Sean Connery look with the ponytail, really only seemed to work for Sean Connery. So guys don’t be scared to cut that length you are holding onto in the back. If you are balding on top, having length on the back doesn’t make it less noticeable, so embrace it! There are plenty of sexy bald men out there. And if totally bald is a bit much for you, a nice close trim looks just as nice.
See your stylist or barber for recommendations. Good Luck and Mo’Hair!
Guys, I hope you didn’t think I forgot about you! Hair is hair and men go through just as many hair woes as women. In some instances, the men are worse! Whether its ego, insecurity or something else, men spend a lot of money on products and many times it’s the wrong product. So guys, this is for you… pay close attention.
You have 2 groups of men when it comes to hair products. First we have the men who will purchase the newest product and try every gel, cream or spray out there. These men probably spend more on products than the women, in the course of a year. Secondly, we have the men who really could care less. These men use whatever their wives or girlfriends leave in the shower and if they can’t find any, they’ll even resort to using SOAP! (Please stop!) But in both instances, I also find that men tend to overuse products. It shouldn’t take more than a dime-nickel size amount of shampoo, unless you have longer hair. Keep in mind that dirty hair doesn’t lather very well, so if you are using a lot because you are looking for the lather, there is no need. It will lather on the second shampoo and at that time you should use even less.
I also find that men rarely use conditioner. Remember, hair is hair and all hair needs conditioner. Because there generally isn’t much heat styling among the men, a conditioner may not be needed daily, but don’t exclude it completely from your regimen. Even if you don't have hair, a healthy scalp is still important.
I suggest American Crew or Redken for Men. They smell great and there’s something for every hair type. The conditioners are pretty light so you don’t have to worry about product buildup. If you are a guy who uses a lot of heavy creams and gels daily or you tend to have oily hair, I suggest using a cleansing shampoo. Depending on the brand it may say cleansing, purifying or clarifying on the bottle, so don’t fret, it’s the same thing. If you tend to have dryness or a few flakes, try using a moisturizing shampoo and follow with good moisturizing conditioner. The Citrus Mint shampoo by American Crew, is a crowd favorite. It gives a nice tingle and cooling sensation on your scalp. Other notable brands are Sebastian and Paul Mitchell. All of these items can be found at professional salons or purchased online.
How many nights have you gotten minimal sleep because you are trying to preserve your hairstyle? This may not be relevant in other cultures, but this is a trying issue for women in the black community. You’ve waited all week for your appointment, stayed all day in the salon and avoided rain, humidity and sweat to maintain your look. But nighttime always comes and sleep is needed. So now what do you do- Sleep Pretty?
There is no need for you to sleep upright in order to still look cute in the morning. For years, you have been told, “Just wrap your hair up”. WRONG! Unfortunately, that is not the answer for every style. When preparing to lie down for the night, think about the shape of your hairstyle. Why tie something flat around your head if you are trying to maintain fullness? The wrong headgear can ruin a style more than if you didn’t do anything at all! So here are a few suggestions:
The bonnet is good for curly styles. Sets, afro’s, braids…actually any style. It works just like a shower cap, without being plastic. Comfortable and plenty of ventilation, so don’t worry, you won’t wake up sweating.
This is a good one for short styles. You can keep your style in order up top without having to tie it all down and re-curl every morning. Too much heat styling is never a good thing so getting through the night is imperative. This is also a good idea for medium-longer styles that are fairly straight with just a little volume up top. You can roll the top with about 5 Velcro rollers and wrap up the bottom and finish off with this type of wrap.
These types of full headscarves are great for styles that are smooth, straight or flat, like cornrows for example. If you aren't interested in having volume or body and you prefer a smoother style, then this is what you should be using. Full coverage scarves come in many styles and are easy to find every from beauty supply stores to Walmart and CVS.
Although its African American women who mainly use these items, I would suggest them for anyone. Does your long hair get in your way at night? Do you find your significant other lying on top of it? Then you too should consider these options. And for those of you, who absolutely can't sleep with this, don't want to or your MATE doesn't want you to, then set your hair free!
Just be sure to replace your cotton-covered pillow with a satin or silk pillowcase, to maintain moisture and prevent breakage. Good luck & Sweet Dreams!
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